It's great when you meet someone for the first time and there is this sudden attraction between the two of you. It feels wonderful. We as women "know we 'got it going on' "! We love the attention and of course many times do a little extra to keep all eyes on us. Although it's wonderful, meeting the opposite sex, giving one the opportunity to invest time with you beyond a conversation comes with a trust not just a "sudden attraction".
For me, I've never dated a few men at at time. That's not how I was raised (not saying my parents forbid dating), but with that comes a disadvantage. Why? There is no variety to choose from...and so one becomes attached because all their free time is invested with just one person. I'm either alone or with just one person. It's not that dating is wrong, which I thought at one time, it's great because there is no obligation to one person and you can decide who complements you best. I think I've got it! Thanks to my friend who put me in check.
