Monday, December 5, 2011

Rebound


Many people break up and jump right into another relationship because they don't want to be alone. The problem is, they tend to carry the pain from the past into a new beginning with someone else. A sore must heal before the pain goes away....a broken heart must be mended before one can really give him/her all to being with someone else. You can never go forward looking into a rear view mirror. If you can accept whole heartedly the break-up, understand why it didn't work so it doesn't happen again, the healing begins then. Soon you'll realize, it's easy to move on with someone new.

Monday, November 21, 2011

Don't Date Him/Her & Forget!


Have you ever been on a date and you knew that person was the one you desired to get to know? They said everything you wanted to hear. You agreed on so many issues, especially goals in life. You two just hit it off wonderfully well. Everything was perfect. You even went out on a second date. Saw him/her for a third time. Then something happened. He/she just stopped calling you. You called, called and left messages. And when you did reach the person, they would pretend everything is still cool, but would never call you back.

OR

Maybe you were that person who just left someone hanging for whatever reasons. You just did.

If you have been left "out in the cold", so to speak, it may have been because you trust to quickly. Besides, just seeing someone three times doesn't mean you know them and that you can really trust them to be true to their words. That comes with time. Give the person the opportunity to "walk the walk" and not just talk the talk before you get to attached. Don't get to excited about words, because they mean nothing unless action is attached to them.

If you were the one who dropped someone like that and stop calling them without giving a valid reason. You are wrong. People have feelings. They breath just like you...they have a heart. It's better to hurt someone's feelings with the truth than just pretend everything is wonderful and cut them off. That's cruel and heartless. Always see yourself taking the hit first before you hit someone. I bet you'll think twice about doing it...and just the same with dating. Treat people like you desire to be treated-with respect.

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Bat A Thousand-Win the Game!


If you've been striking out in the dating game, a little self analysis is a must at this time. One may say, I'm very successful in dating. Well what does that mean? Have you found the "one". The one you can invest the rest of your life with. If so, you have definitely "WON"! If you are still in the game, then there is some more work to do. And if marriage isn't in the cards for you, then make sure you are upfront if this conversation ever comes up. Never lead anyone on to think something other than what your goal is. Honesty is the best policy. Get the book, How To Win The Dating Game, http://www.hairdron-call.com for tips on successful dating.

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Get His Attention!


I used to believe that a woman should never approach a man. Now I feel a little different as long as it's done in good taste. What I mean is never be too forward or domineering. You want to let him know you're interested in a subtle way. Find a way when in his presence to start a conversation, not centered around you or him for that matter. Rather give him a compliment, ask a question within reason or say something about the weather. Now it does make a difference if you know this person from work, leisure time -at the gym vs. just seeing him for the first time. Whatever the case may be, make yourself noticeable without being so obvious.

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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Have Fun While Dating!


First date should be planned out in the open, especially if it's someone you're meeting for the first time. Meet for breakfast or lunch and save dinner for if you decide to move ahead. Make it fun. I went on a motorcycle ride with a date and we stopped at an ice cream spot that had tables set outside for enjoyment. I was also taken to a nail spa and treated to a deluxe manicure and pedicure and lunch. It was fun. Conversation was great! Just have fun with it. There are some great tips in the book, How To Win The Dating Game. Get yours. I have mine. http://www.hairdron-call.com

Monday, October 17, 2011

Hook-ups Just Won't Do!

Does it seem like you are hooking up with all the wrong men/women? Have you ever had a disaster date? I know I've experienced both. I've actually went on to get married, blinded by love, only to get a shock wake-up call that he was just all wrong for me. It's not that the warning signs weren't there. It's just that I ignored them, thinking he would change, and he did just to get me to marry him and went right back to his old ways. Whatever you do, when you know what you really desire in your heart, don't settle because you lose in the end, like I did and a hellish experience of divorce is something I would never wish on anyone. Now that I've made it through, I've been given another chance and I'm sure to win the dating game. I have a guide to follow, How To Win The Dating Game, by my mentor who has succeeded in this area and is happily married. Get the book from my website: http://www.hairdron-call.com for only $29.99 and receive a free hair product from yours truly.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Be Honest With Yourself!


Winning the Dating-n-game begins with you being honest with yourself first. What do you really desire? People date for different reasons: some have pure motives others don't. But in order to know, you must pay attention. Also think about your intentions. Are you dating because you don't want to be alone and settling? You just broke up with someone and desire to make them jealous. So on and so forth-all the wrong reasons or all the right reasons. You are looking for someone to complement you. You desire marriage. You feel you have something of value to offer. If this is the case. Go for it, but you may still need a little help. So get, "How To Win The Dating Game" NOW! http://www.hairdron-call.com