Know What You Desire!

When it comes to the Date-n-game, women should first discover their own individuality, embombing the advice given by mom, grandma, auntie, sisters and friends based on their relationships. Only keep sound advice loaded with wisdom that helps to prosper and enhance a relationship. Still, a woman must really hear her own voice of what she aspires to be in life, reaching towards her goals, loving who she is in all confidence. Then meeting and having casual conversation with a man comes easy. Allow him to talk more, so you can find out upfront, if he is someone you should keep in touch with let alone go out on a date with. Yes, be specific when you chose someone to go to that next stage with. Don't waste your time if you two have absolutely nothing in common, although he may be a "nice" guy. Nice doesn't cut it, if he isn't suitable for you.

Make A Date With Yourself! "Ladies" Before Dating

Most women question the idea of making a date with themselves. Just like the date-n-game, we go out with men to get to know who they are, their likes and dislikes; basically, what makes them tick. The truth of the matter is, many women have yet to identify with their true self. As a result one of the three takes place:
1. Being fragmented within oneself, someone is brought into the picture of the same disposition; two halves making a whole vs. two wholes complimenting each other.
2. Someone who is complete within himself comes into this fragmented picture to work with her issues because he sees the value, or
3. He is taken to his limit and leaves.

My brother, Master Derrick Omari El says, "Sometimes the worst enemy to a ConsCious Asiatic Man is an Unconscious Asiatic woman..however when that women becomes a Conscious Asiatic Woman that man will be able to conquer the World!"

I agree 100%

Ladies, take time, some quiet time, to center yourself. You will discover what you really desire behind all the superstition of materialism. Ask yourself, "What do I really desire out of life and love? What is it I love about me? What is it I dislike about me? What changes can I make for me to be better for me? Would I date me, if I were a man? Would I marry me, if I were a man? What is it that others dislike about me? Just to mention a few. Answer these questions honestly and if you're not happy with some of your answers, get to work on a better you.

Also make dates with yourself to do what makes you happy, don't wait for a man to do it for you. When you began to really love yourself, that aura becomes electric and magnetic. You will draw men to you easy without looking. Then shall someone find you to complement him. This is the start of the Asiatic women becoming conscious!