Just because you are single doesn't mean you should go out with anyone. Make sure you know what you desire in a partner, so you don't waste time going out with someone who you have nothing in common with. Please don't be a nit-picker either. Don't get caught up on height, weight, complexion... to a certain degree. The main thing is the two of you have the same spiritual beliefs. That is first and foremost. And don't go out with someone just because he/she's "nice" if you really don't desire to. Better yet, if you do, please be upfront and honest, not to lead him/her on if they're really into you.

Finding the Right Date

How do I find a date? My friend invites me to a "Black Tie" affair and tells me she's bringing a date? Well this is my challenge by the end of September. I haven't been out on a date since last year. I don't have many male friends because once they discover that they are unsuccessful in "having their way" with me, they kinda wean themselves off. And it's great for me, because I find who really values me as a woman that stands on true morals and values. It's not that I have a problem finding a man or a date for that matter. For me it's finding the right one. My challenge is on!