Have you ever been on a date and you knew that person was the one you desired to get to know? They said everything you wanted to hear. You agreed on so many issues, especially goals in life. You two just hit it off wonderfully well. Everything was perfect. You even went out on a second date. Saw him/her for a third time. Then something happened. He/she just stopped calling you. You called, called and left messages. And when you did reach the person, they would pretend everything is still cool, but would never call you back.
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Maybe you were that person who just left someone hanging for whatever reasons. You just did.
If you have been left "out in the cold", so to speak, it may have been because you trust to quickly. Besides, just seeing someone three times doesn't mean you know them and that you can really trust them to be true to their words. That comes with time. Give the person the opportunity to "walk the walk" and not just talk the talk before you get to attached. Don't get to excited about words, because they mean nothing unless action is attached to them.
If you were the one who dropped someone like that and stop calling them without giving a valid reason. You are wrong. People have feelings. They breath just like you...they have a heart. It's better to hurt someone's feelings with the truth than just pretend everything is wonderful and cut them off. That's cruel and heartless. Always see yourself taking the hit first before you hit someone. I bet you'll think twice about doing it...and just the same with dating. Treat people like you desire to be treated-with respect.
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