Rebound

Many people break up and jump right into another relationship because they don't want to be alone. The problem is, they tend to carry the pain from the past into a new beginning with someone else. A sore must heal before the pain goes away....a broken heart must be mended before one can really give him/her all to being with someone else. You can never go forward looking into a rear view mirror. If you can accept whole heartedly the break-up, understand why it didn't work so it doesn't happen again, the healing begins then. Soon you'll realize, it's easy to move on with someone new.

Don't Date Him/Her & Forget!

Have you ever been on a date and you knew that person was the one you desired to get to know? They said everything you wanted to hear. You agreed on so many issues, especially goals in life. You two just hit it off wonderfully well. Everything was perfect. You even went out on a second date. Saw him/her for a third time. Then something happened. He/she just stopped calling you. You called, called and left messages. And when you did reach the person, they would pretend everything is still cool, but would never call you back.

OR

Maybe you were that person who just left someone hanging for whatever reasons. You just did.

If you have been left "out in the cold", so to speak, it may have been because you trust to quickly. Besides, just seeing someone three times doesn't mean you know them and that you can really trust them to be true to their words. That comes with time. Give the person the opportunity to "walk the walk" and not just talk the talk before you get to attached. Don't get to excited about words, because they mean nothing unless action is attached to them.

If you were the one who dropped someone like that and stop calling them without giving a valid reason. You are wrong. People have feelings. They breath just like you...they have a heart. It's better to hurt someone's feelings with the truth than just pretend everything is wonderful and cut them off. That's cruel and heartless. Always see yourself taking the hit first before you hit someone. I bet you'll think twice about doing it...and just the same with dating. Treat people like you desire to be treated-with respect.

Bat A Thousand-Win the Game!

If you've been striking out in the dating game, a little self analysis is a must at this time. One may say, I'm very successful in dating. Well what does that mean? Have you found the "one". The one you can invest the rest of your life with. If so, you have definitely "WON"! If you are still in the game, then there is some more work to do. And if marriage isn't in the cards for you, then make sure you are upfront if this conversation ever comes up. Never lead anyone on to think something other than what your goal is. Honesty is the best policy. Get the book, How To Win The Dating Game, http://www.hairdron-call.com for tips on successful dating.

Get His Attention!

I used to believe that a woman should never approach a man. Now I feel a little different as long as it's done in good taste. What I mean is never be too forward or domineering. You want to let him know you're interested in a subtle way. Find a way when in his presence to start a conversation, not centered around you or him for that matter. Rather give him a compliment, ask a question within reason or say something about the weather. Now it does make a difference if you know this person from work, leisure time -at the gym vs. just seeing him for the first time. Whatever the case may be, make yourself noticeable without being so obvious.

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Have Fun While Dating!

First date should be planned out in the open, especially if it's someone you're meeting for the first time. Meet for breakfast or lunch and save dinner for if you decide to move ahead. Make it fun. I went on a motorcycle ride with a date and we stopped at an ice cream spot that had tables set outside for enjoyment. I was also taken to a nail spa and treated to a deluxe manicure and pedicure and lunch. It was fun. Conversation was great! Just have fun with it. There are some great tips in the book, How To Win The Dating Game. Get yours. I have mine. http://www.hairdron-call.com

Hook-ups Just Won't Do!

Does it seem like you are hooking up with all the wrong men/women? Have you ever had a disaster date? I know I've experienced both. I've actually went on to get married, blinded by love, only to get a shock wake-up call that he was just all wrong for me. It's not that the warning signs weren't there. It's just that I ignored them, thinking he would change, and he did just to get me to marry him and went right back to his old ways. Whatever you do, when you know what you really desire in your heart, don't settle because you lose in the end, like I did and a hellish experience of divorce is something I would never wish on anyone. Now that I've made it through, I've been given another chance and I'm sure to win the dating game. I have a guide to follow, How To Win The Dating Game, by my mentor who has succeeded in this area and is happily married. Get the book from my website: http://www.hairdron-call.com for only $29.99 and receive a free hair product from yours truly.

Be Honest With Yourself!

Winning the Dating-n-game begins with you being honest with yourself first. What do you really desire? People date for different reasons: some have pure motives others don't. But in order to know, you must pay attention. Also think about your intentions. Are you dating because you don't want to be alone and settling? You just broke up with someone and desire to make them jealous. So on and so forth-all the wrong reasons or all the right reasons. You are looking for someone to complement you. You desire marriage. You feel you have something of value to offer. If this is the case. Go for it, but you may still need a little help. So get, "How To Win The Dating Game" NOW! http://www.hairdron-call.com

How To Win The Dating Game!

Dating is just that a game. Games are fun and exciting-not to be taken seriously. You win some games and you lose some. Dating works the same. The important thing is not to be a sore loser. Why? It's just a game! So go on enjoy this moment in your life until you find a connection with someone where you decide to take the next step. But PLEASE, whatever you do, never talk about marriage on the first date. Besides, why would you, you're just getting to know the other person. Dating is not that serious, no one is obligated to the other person...and if a date turns out to be the "Date From Hell", at most you never have to see that person EVER AGAIN! You must get the book, HOW TO WIN THE DATING GAME, by Bishop Shammah Womack-El. Email me: darleneisradiant@yahoo.com or call 973-748-0090....it's very inexpensive-save money and heart ache at the time!

GET YOUR GAME ON RIGHT!

Are you tired of failing at the dating game? Are you looking for love, it seems in all wrong men/women? Well, that day is over. First things first. You must decide what truly makes you happy & not based on external factors, although looks and dress play a part. Just don't get stuck on that because it doesn't work like that. What do you desire? And be honest with yourself so you can be honest with those you meet. Are you ready for a serious relationship now? Are you looking for marriage? Do you just desire to enjoy life and have friends? You must know yourself! Start with this because I definitely have a treat for you!

Just because you are single doesn't mean you should go out with anyone. Make sure you know what you desire in a partner, so you don't waste time going out with someone who you have nothing in common with. Please don't be a nit-picker either. Don't get caught up on height, weight, complexion... to a certain degree. The main thing is the two of you have the same spiritual beliefs. That is first and foremost. And don't go out with someone just because he/she's "nice" if you really don't desire to. Better yet, if you do, please be upfront and honest, not to lead him/her on if they're really into you.

Finding the Right Date

How do I find a date? My friend invites me to a "Black Tie" affair and tells me she's bringing a date? Well this is my challenge by the end of September. I haven't been out on a date since last year. I don't have many male friends because once they discover that they are unsuccessful in "having their way" with me, they kinda wean themselves off. And it's great for me, because I find who really values me as a woman that stands on true morals and values. It's not that I have a problem finding a man or a date for that matter. For me it's finding the right one. My challenge is on!

Enjoy Dating- - - No Expectations!

Dating is fun when you are young in experience. You go out and have fun getting to know people with no strings attached. Once you become emotionally attached to a particular person, that game is over because you look for something more to happen. You stop all association with the other people you hang out with and focus on the "ONE". Then many people experience heartbreaks for the simple fact that someone's not honest or someone wants to go further and the other doesn't. I would say, get to know yourself, accomplish your dreams or at least be on the path of your destiny before even the thought of getting serious with anyone. Date and have fun, not expecting anything from anyone until you put expectations on yourself...and don't give of yourself expecting that to make someone obligated to you, because it doesn't. Keep yourself for yourself until you find yourself. In the mean time enjoy the Date-n-game.

Know What You Desire!

When it comes to the Date-n-game, women should first discover their own individuality, embombing the advice given by mom, grandma, auntie, sisters and friends based on their relationships. Only keep sound advice loaded with wisdom that helps to prosper and enhance a relationship. Still, a woman must really hear her own voice of what she aspires to be in life, reaching towards her goals, loving who she is in all confidence. Then meeting and having casual conversation with a man comes easy. Allow him to talk more, so you can find out upfront, if he is someone you should keep in touch with let alone go out on a date with. Yes, be specific when you chose someone to go to that next stage with. Don't waste your time if you two have absolutely nothing in common, although he may be a "nice" guy. Nice doesn't cut it, if he isn't suitable for you.

Make A Date With Yourself! "Ladies" Before Dating

Most women question the idea of making a date with themselves. Just like the date-n-game, we go out with men to get to know who they are, their likes and dislikes; basically, what makes them tick. The truth of the matter is, many women have yet to identify with their true self. As a result one of the three takes place:
1. Being fragmented within oneself, someone is brought into the picture of the same disposition; two halves making a whole vs. two wholes complimenting each other.
2. Someone who is complete within himself comes into this fragmented picture to work with her issues because he sees the value, or
3. He is taken to his limit and leaves.

My brother, Master Derrick Omari El says, "Sometimes the worst enemy to a ConsCious Asiatic Man is an Unconscious Asiatic woman..however when that women becomes a Conscious Asiatic Woman that man will be able to conquer the World!"

I agree 100%

Ladies, take time, some quiet time, to center yourself. You will discover what you really desire behind all the superstition of materialism. Ask yourself, "What do I really desire out of life and love? What is it I love about me? What is it I dislike about me? What changes can I make for me to be better for me? Would I date me, if I were a man? Would I marry me, if I were a man? What is it that others dislike about me? Just to mention a few. Answer these questions honestly and if you're not happy with some of your answers, get to work on a better you.

Also make dates with yourself to do what makes you happy, don't wait for a man to do it for you. When you began to really love yourself, that aura becomes electric and magnetic. You will draw men to you easy without looking. Then shall someone find you to complement him. This is the start of the Asiatic women becoming conscious!

Dating Gives You Choices!

It's great when you meet someone for the first time and there is this sudden attraction between the two of you. It feels wonderful. We as women "know we 'got it going on' "! We love the attention and of course many times do a little extra to keep all eyes on us. Although it's wonderful, meeting the opposite sex, giving one the opportunity to invest time with you beyond a conversation comes with a trust not just a "sudden attraction".

For me, I've never dated a few men at at time. That's not how I was raised (not saying my parents forbid dating), but with that comes a disadvantage. Why? There is no variety to choose from...and so one becomes attached because all their free time is invested with just one person. I'm either alone or with just one person. It's not that dating is wrong, which I thought at one time, it's great because there is no obligation to one person and you can decide who complements you best. I think I've got it! Thanks to my friend who put me in check.